Friday, March 21, 2014

Cliff Tops of Varkala





Varkala is a cute tourist town perched atop a cliff in the Indian State of Kerala. This beach was a 2 hour bus ride North of Kovalam, our home for the months of January and February. I can't say much about the swimming in Varkala... I dove in once and to my surprise, my bikini bottoms weren't up for that challenge! I caught a few sunrays on the beach, stayed at a hostel the first 2 nights and met lovely people, but the homestay I switched to after 2 nights was so perfect! I was content spending all day lounging at the Maitrii House! 

view from the balcony at Maitri House
A bit of background on how I ended up at Megumi and Sunil's front porch. In Kovalam, we quickly got to know all the shop owners and locals. They would see us walking around all day back and forth from asana practice, eating and swimming! Kovalam has a million taylor shops, and we became especially fond of one of the younger guys that we saw on the way home everyday. When he found out a group of us were planning on moving on the Varkala, the younger and hipper beach town of Kerala, he gave us his friend Sunil's info and recommended we stay at his guest house! I didn't any previous experience in guest houses. I imagined it would be perhaps a really small house and that there would be a lot of people cramped in a small space and feared I would be intruding on someone's home. Our yoga-mate Ron arrived first and right away expressed how awesome Maitrii House was. I was hesitant but when he said they had a tree-house and hammocks, my mind quickly changed !

Tree house, with lamps and chairs inside!

I could not be happier with the place! Not just the house itself, the garden, the tree house, the hammocks, the WIFI! I had been living for 2 months without it! The huge kitchen, that we were actually allowed to use! I even had my own bathroom in my room! No sharing? My bed was huge and so beautiful, even the mosquito net made me feel like a princess! The room stayed cool, the fan worked perfectly, the toilet, everything! Upstairs there was a yoga shala, a back porch that was covered and had plenty of shade. Plenty of room for group yoga! Of course, there were the daily power outages, but that's completely 100% expected in India. If all those wonderful things I listed weren't enough- well there were the beautiful owners! Megumi, a sweet Japanese woman that fell in love with Sunil, a local from Kovalam! They are so absolutely adorable, friendly and helpful!



So, yeah the house was awesome! But the town was also lovely! Maybe because it was new, and I had eaten at the same restaurants and seen the same shops in Kovalam for a while. But here everything was so fresh, they had so many food options and even a juice bar! Juices and smoothies were available in Kovalam- but a place specifically for juices? And they were bigger and cheaper! More flavors and more options! And there was WIFI everywhere! I know, I may be a WIFI addict- but when you don't have a local mobile phone or internet for 2 months, it feels really good to be connected! Plus there is a 12 hour time difference from here and home, my only chance to catch up with buddies and family is either early in the AM or late at night!

Juice with a view? yes please!
Varkala was also exciting because there was a tiny bit of nightlife! What, staying out past 10pm? I did that maybe a total of 4 times in Kovalam, there were a few late night dance parties that happened at one of our favorite restaurants (Alan's) but never live music! On my first night in Varkala, we discovered the Rock n Roll cafe! I went along with a few new friends from the hostel and we fell in love with the man playing the guitar! Imagine an older, overweight Kerala man singing and playing an out of tune acoustic guitar. His favorite songs to jam to were anything Eagles, ACDC and Led Zeppelin! He also had his buddy playing a tiny, rickety drum-set next to him. He asked us to call him Jason and mostly wanted to take requests. He was so lovely and just really wanted to make us happy. We were actually the only people in the entire bar, and was always so happy to actually have an audience. We came back every night after that just to hear him play his guitar and sing his awesome tunes.

With my hair twin, Emma from London
The guy to my right is the drum player!

After a few days of being in Varkala, some of the February Hatha Samyak Yogis made the move there too! It was so refreshing to see new faces and actually get to know these people. I didn't get to chat with them much during their training course, they were always busy and running around. Seeing familiar faces and sharing our teacher training experiences was so good. We all established that we couldn't be happier with  Samyak Yoga, we felt the love and passion from the teachers. Their honestly and loyalty to their company, but most importantly, to the meaning of Yoga.

 


Oh- I also had a bit of a job for a total of one day! I stopped for a juice at an amazing spot, called the Coffee Temple! If you sit at the very front , you have an amazing view of the cliff and can catch some great shots of paragliders swaying in the wind! 

As I went to pay, I noticed a sign saying they needed volunteers. I waited tables for 6 years and constantly miss it!! The interaction, the fast-paced environment and interacting with the cooks! I love it! So I told them I wouldn't mind working for free- they said they would give me free food and coffee all day, and accommodation in their guest house if I needed! I worked from 8am-1pm and it was crazy! Not much organization, just randomly picking up tables. I didn't know the menu and there was no computer system. I had to hand write every single order and explain each one to the cooks after the tables ordered. Despite the few bumps, it was actually really fun! and all my friends showed up to sit in my section! First the yogis, came and had their juices and coffees! A bit later, my hostel friends came. The Germans and the Brits, ate their traditional English breakfast, omelettes and fruit salads! After a fun day of working, Yogi Bravo rolled up in a red scooter beep beep beeping! It was perfect timing, yes- I was a bit weary, but I figured it was a tough day at work and riding around town in scooters with the entire group and searching for a hidden beach sounded like an amazing plan! 



It was so much scarier than I expected! Being a back-seat driver comes rather easily to me! How can I not be in control of everything, right?? haha- so, of course, we survived and it was worth every drop of sweat and and grey hair ! We found The Black sand beach, did some headstands and built a sand castle. Finished the day off with veg pakoras and smoothies before heading back to our beach! 




So Varkala, the perfect balance of minimal nightlifeyoga , hidden beaches and new + old friends! All in one place!


 


-GIA

Sunday, March 16, 2014

karma yoga

   I arrived in India on the 4th of January 2014, the journey here was a long one.. And I'm not just referring to the plane rides. Since the beginning of 2013, I knew I wouldn't be in Texas for much longer. I was finally getting over the living in France melancholy hangover. I had been at my "grown-up" job for almost a year and I established from the start that Media Sales was not going to be the path for me. But how could I just walk away from this BIG GIRL job? My parents were proud, I finally had benefits, health insurance! Salary! Paid holidays, this is everyone's dream, right? This is why my Dad came to the United States, right? For his family to have a better life than he did, for us to never be hungry, for us to not drink well water or develop spots and freckles from working in the sun since the age of 5. How could I be like every other Generation Y-er now? How cliche! To be fair, there was actually a time in my life when I thought those were all the things I wanted in life. Then, in 2009, I did a study abroad summer session in Paris. 


La Tour Eiffel & Carrousel in Paris 2009
      
        Fields of Normandy, 2009

I met the people that influenced me the most back then and the most now. I realized how big the world was and how hungry I was for foreign cultures. Not just the language, but other people's actual way of life. As a 21 year old, roaming the streets of France with my friends, mastering the metro and how to order pain-au-chocolats at the boulangerie - I felt utterly satisfied with life! How was I going to go back home? Back to working two jobs, plus school , oh and a boyfriend! The boyfriend was no longer in the loop anymore. He wasn't going to understand all the amazing things I saw and did! Of course, I was right. The relationship didn't last long after I returned, and it really was because I came back as a different person. 


 
   With Jen at the Arc de Triomph- 
Check out her highly entertaining blog about living life in the French Island 

  This is Ben ,we met in Paris but our friendship thrived back in Texas. This hombre is now living in New York, he is creative, passionate and has a song or GIF for whatever the occasion.

He has a full-time job, plus school - oh and the editor of this zine ! :

   So, that was the start of the new Grecia. As soon as I came to Texas, I started looking for a way to get out. I completed my 4th year of university like a champ, had another really short, but eye-opening relationship. Realized how much fun you can actually have with a partner and learned about myself. I  found improved balance in trusting and loving myself and my ideas. Half way through 2010, I was accepted to teach English and placed in a tiny town, smack dab in the middle of France called Aurillac. I was away from the states for a total of 10 months, I made the best of friends: my English flatmate, Amelia, and two Welshies that might as well have lived with us- Loren and Grace.


Loren, Amelia, me and Grace- enjoying the view of Aurillac from the Puy. It was one of the best birthdays ever, a surprise picnic @ the best spot in all of town. 


Aurillac- centre-ville. The bright shutters and blue sky will never get old 

The green hills and brown cows for which the Cantal Department is known

 During my time in France I hopped all around the country, couchsurfed in Spain for 2 weeks and road-tripped around the UK for a month. It's pretty obvious to see how difficult it was going to be for me to come back to Texas. I had spent all my money wandering around, I no longer had a car waiting for me at home, not even a mobile phone plan! No more apartment or any furniture, I was going to live at my parents' house. The house I lived in until I was 18 was now sold, they were in a new home, in a total new neighborhood and in the suburbs! It was so hard for me to grasp the concept of going back to my parents' place. For the past 5 years, I only visited home for a maximum of 2 days. The fear of moving into the house was not because I didn't love them. Frankly, it was just going to be a new style of life. I just spent a year having the most freedom I had ever experienced in my life...I felt the culture shock of coming back home creeping up on me slowly. The flight back home was in May of 2011. As I crossed the Atlantic, the decision was made to stay in Texas for 1 year; save some money and be on my way elsewhere. 

Benefits of being home: reunited with mi familia and best friends! and the British girls coming to Texas for the first time ever!
                         
                                                     my cute, tiny family 
nenas trip to Miami
The girls in Colorado 

Lads visit me in Texas for the Summer


   1 year became almost 3! By Autumn 2013 , I knew I would be going to India to attend yoga teacher training. I completed a 4 week long course in Kovalam, India. Kovalam is a cozy beach town that I quickly grew fond of.  


Kovalam Light House Beach, where we practiced yoga and ate delicious food
The region of Kerala is known as God's Own Country & Coconut Grove Land


Typical lunch, curry plus some salads, rice, bread, pappadam..as many servings as we could eat!

Developing the self discipline after the training has not come so easily. During yoga school, our days were packed with thought-provoking theory classes, sweaty asana practices, happy kirtan singing and eating food! Lots of tasty, mouth-watering curries, veggies and rice! I thought this rigorous schedule would surely set me up to keep the practice going on my very own at the end of it. I believe staying in the same town led me to be a bit stagnant. I convinced myself that I needed to rest after the tough 4 weeks. My body was sore and I was finally getting to know the people in the town. I spent my days at the beach and didn't do much yoga...the feelings of self-critism and disappointment were definitely present in my mind.

Graduation Ceremony with Trupta, Steph and Arvind.. Rakesh was there in spirit!
           I'm official!!

   Coming to Thailand for this short time has already had a positive impact on me. I knew before that I loved India, but being here has made me really look forward to getting back there very soon. Seeing my old friend, Amanda , pouring my heart out, laughing, getting sweaty and bouncing around between Thailand and Cambodia was exactly what I needed. We have been busy, but have had the best encounters ever! I feel honored by the hospitality in these two countries, I feel refreshed and hopeful. I am staying mindful, in the present moment, aware of my heart beat, my breath, my gratitude. Everything, and I am patiently waiting to be back in India and do what I have intended to do all along- Karma Yoga. 

Therefore, be "unattached", let things work; let brain centres work; work incessantly, but let not a ripple conquer the mind. Work as if you were a stranger in this land, a sojourner; work incessantly, but do not bind yourselves; bondage is terrible. 
-Swami Vivekananda from his lectures on Karma Yoga- The Yoga of Action


Karma Yoga is one of the 4 paths of yoga, it can be understood as the yoga of service without expectation, this requires selflessness. I am not calling myself selfless, but I know I have a lot of energy that I would like to put into something good. For someone other than myself and in a place where I am already doing a lot of learning. It seems perfect, it's a great reason to extend my time here and to also help me with the conflicting thoughts of selfishness that at times arise. I constantly feel grateful for being here and I know that volunteering with an organization that is actually in need of help will make me feel even more of that gratitude.. for the things my eyes are seeing and my heart is feeling. 

Thank you India
-GIA